Help help help...very upset and stunned.
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|Sun, 02-14-2010 - 10:39am|
Gosh. I am just stunned...and sad and ANGRY and I dont know what else to say about how I feel.
SS is 14. He is doing great--unles he visits his mom which now is one weekend a month--we have him full time otherwise.
Last visit we found out that he had been caught with kids breaking into a house, smking pot etc. Well come to find out he didnt do anything besides show up there whenhis TEN yes TEN year old brother had been gone from the house for 2 hours from 8-10 p.m. Where was mom? Sleeping off the pills she takes.
So we find out that he has been arrested up there (two hours from where we live) at his moms house and that he DIDNT do what the other kids did. Why did she tell us? She had to. The next DAY we got the papers saying the case that happened in AUGUST would be turned to our county since we are the FT parents. OMG where to even start with that one.
Anyway, she NOW wants her 10 year old little s**t kid who doesnt listen, drinks, smokes pot AND gets his brother into trouble to...brace yourself: MOVE HERE!!!!!!!
She initially said that he wanted to visit on every other weekend. Umm No way! I cannot belive this woman!
DH is NOT the father of the other kid and has NO interest in bringing him here. ONe side of me feels so bad for this kis knowing his life is going no where up there. The other sid esays THIS IS NOT OUR ISSUE!!
However..he IS SS brother!!