SD and husband making me nuts

The poor thing, it sounds like the family is putting a ton of pressure on her. I'm not surprised she is wavering, she just wants to make everyone happy. Would she be willing to try it for a period of time, like a year, to see how it goes? I think she's old enough to understand that this isn't an easy to change to make, for any of you, and she needs to stick to her decision.

It sounds like you can't win no matter what :( I hope that your husband will stop putting so much pressure on you.