SD and husband making me nuts

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Registered: 01-19-2011
SD and husband making me nuts
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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 12:39pm

Hello everyone:

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 04-16-2012 - 5:20pm
The poor thing, it sounds like the family is putting a ton of pressure on her. I'm not surprised she is wavering, she just wants to make everyone happy. Would she be willing to try it for a period of time, like a year, to see how it goes? I think she's old enough to understand that this isn't an easy to change to make, for any of you, and she needs to stick to her decision.

It sounds like you can't win no matter what :( I hope that your husband will stop putting so much pressure on you.

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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 11:07pm

She went back to her bio mom this evening. It was quite devastating. We are all still trying to get over the shock of it all. My husband is very upset at losing her. I don't blame him - we all loved her. It's not like she's gone completely, it just feels like it.

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Tue, 04-17-2012 - 1:17pm

I'm sorry :(