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Tue, 07-21-2009 - 3:00pm
I'm very unhappy. I guess depressed is more the correct term. On the 13th I started spotting. We went to the dr and got an ultra sound. We saw the heart beat at 6 weeks and 1 day. We were excited and a bit relieved. We had a blood draw my 1st beat was 4000 but my progesterone was only 7. So I started taking progestorne. But to no avail. My next beta was 48 hrs later was 5200. It hadn't doubled. On thurs night I passed a huge clot and immediately called my mid wife. She told me how sorry she was but the baby wasn't going to make it. She started crying after she asked how I was taking it. Not well that's for sure. I don't know if we will try again. I just stopped bleeding today. This is loss #3 for us. Well at least confirmed. I suspect # 5. I'm trying to grieve and move on.

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Registered: 06-04-2008
In reply to: herman3407
Tue, 07-21-2009 - 7:23pm

oh honey I'm so so sorry!! Big hugs!! I'm here if you need a friend, I've lost 3 myself so I understand the hurt

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In reply to: herman3407
Tue, 07-21-2009 - 11:43pm
I am so sorry!

Ramona  Mom to 2 great kids and wife to one wonderful hubby since 1990!

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Registered: 03-21-2008
In reply to: herman3407
Wed, 07-22-2009 - 12:32am
Thanks Krystie:)
It's getting easier except Anabelle keeps asking me about the baby. I told her the baby was sick and doesn't get to home. She doesn't understand and I don't know how to tell her without bawling.

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Wed, 07-22-2009 - 12:37am
Thanks soo much Ramona!

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Registered: 03-11-2009
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Wed, 07-22-2009 - 1:39pm

Erica-


just got on the board and read your sad news... I am so sorry! Take care of yourself!

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In reply to: herman3407
Wed, 07-22-2009 - 2:15pm
Thanks Rebecca. I'm trying to.

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Registered: 05-15-2009
In reply to: herman3407
Wed, 07-22-2009 - 5:23pm
Oh no!

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Wed, 07-22-2009 - 6:47pm

Oh Honey I am so very sorry for you loss. I have had 3 losses myself. I know its so hard but it does get a little bit easier. It sounds like you can get pg but sticking is the problem and from what you have said I think you need to ask the MW about taking pg as soon as pg is confirmed. They should now look into it since you have had 3 confirmed losses.

You are your DH are in my prayers. Big Hugs to you!!

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Registered: 03-21-2008
In reply to: herman3407
Wed, 07-22-2009 - 8:04pm
Thanks Amber. I see the mid wife on monday and I was thinking about asking her about that.

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Registered: 02-11-2008
In reply to: herman3407
Wed, 07-29-2009 - 8:03pm
oh sweetie big big big hugs!!! I am so sorry!! If you need someone to talk to please call me you got my number! big hugs!

 



 

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