I have no answer. I just run and run all year long with soccer, hockey, sleep overs, visits. I find it hard to get anything done during the day because I spend hours driving around in the car. I am getting overwhelmed and am ready to say no more activities to the kids. I won't do it though because I like them to be able to do things.
You just drive here there and everywhere and before you know it one of them turns 16 and can help out a bit.