question about your bithing experiences

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Registered: 09-07-2009
question about your bithing experiences
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Thu, 06-02-2011 - 4:20pm

Hi im Natalie and ive been lurking on this board as id love "tonnes of kids" ;) got 2 so far :)

I had my first DD after induction in hospital and my second just recently by c-section. Im just wondering if any of you have had a c-section/s, successful VBAC? Did you encounter difficulties in your decision to have more babies after atraumatic birth or meet unsupportive drs or mws about having more and more babies?

Your comments or experiences would be much appreciated. Thanks

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Registered: 05-08-2003
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 2:39pm
My 1st was vag birth but everyone after was a csection. I know he drs don't like to do many but I have had 7 .

Lisa


Mom to Kelly, PJ, John, Brooklyn

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Registered: 01-27-2005
Tue, 07-12-2011 - 1:18pm
I am sorry to here that you had to deal with that. I am glad things are getting better for you. With my 4th child I didn't talk about her birth for over a year. It was very stressful for me. After I had a few more it did help me to forget the problems of this birth and helped me to get past it. I hope a more positive experience comes for you.
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Registered: 09-07-2009
Tue, 07-12-2011 - 8:57am

Thank you for your stories ladies.

As it turns out DD2's pregnancy and c-section birth has left me with post traumatic stress disorder. Its affected me deeper than I first realised. Im working on coming to terms with what happenned with support groups, therapy, and am practically writing my own pregnancy care and birth plan for next time. Discussing options with senior midwives and independent midwives. I feel that I need a "redemptive" pregnancy and birth. With as little intervention as possible. I've decided to trust my insincts.

For religious reasons contraception is not an option but im hoping NFP will provide us some

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Registered: 09-27-2002
Sat, 07-09-2011 - 5:55pm
Hi Natalie! Welcome to the board.
I've not had a c/s, but many women here have and have gone on to have either successful v-bacs or multiple c/s.
Tramatic birth experiences I've had and it is hard to get past it. But the one thing that helped me was telling myself that I refused to let it define me or limit me. I wanted TOK so much, and while it was difficult to keep going after bad experiences during birth, it helped me heal by having the babies I wanted.
My best advice would be to keep looking until you find healthcare providers that understand what you've been through and are supportive of helping you achieve your dreams. :)
Hugs,

Martie, wife to one fabulous man and mom to 8 amazing children
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Registered: 01-27-2005
Fri, 06-03-2011 - 8:55am

Hello Natalie,

I am mostly a lurker as well but I thought I could give you my background and experiences because they pertain to your question.

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Registered: 06-26-2007
Thu, 06-02-2011 - 8:24pm

Nat,

I think I recognize you from two boards I lurk on, I have a July '09 and a Dec '10 babies...are you the Nat from those boards?

I mostly lurk here but thought I could answer this for you.

Rebecca (34) and Ryan (33) with Haven-g 5/24/00, Brittan-g 7/17/2002, Grayson-b 8/20/2004 and Teagan-g 7/15/2009...newbie coming December 2010!