Help, Need your opinion!!!

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Registered: 04-22-2008
Help, Need your opinion!!!
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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 1:06pm

Ok here is my dilemma...


My 7 yr old daughter sleeps over her father's house on Friday nights, well he lives with his girlfriend and her 9 yr old son.

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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 3:27pm

hello!! when my niece and nephew come over, all 4 of the kids sleep in the same bedroom-usually in the same beds or all squashed up on the floor. my nephew is 7, my oldest dd is 8, my niece is 5 and my other dd is 4. the boy leaves the room when the girls are getting dressed. he gets dressed in the bathroom or in our bedroom. they dont bathe together. i dont see a problem with a 7 and 9 year old sharing a set of bunk beds. theyre not in the same bed-and i would think that they arent changing in front of each other or bathing together. i dont think theres a problem.
joanne
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Registered: 02-17-2008
Sat, 07-12-2008 - 12:55pm
I agree.....I think at that age its totally fine as long as they are not changing/bathing together.

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Sun, 07-13-2008 - 10:44am

How long has this arrangement been going on?

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Registered: 04-22-2008
Mon, 07-14-2008 - 10:13am

Well first off, I wanted to say thank you for all your responses.

So, they don't change or bath with or in front of