showering

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Registered: 09-23-2008
showering
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Tue, 09-23-2008 - 11:11pm

MY niece is 8 years old, she has started puberty has breasts and pubic hair.

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Registered: 06-29-2001
In reply to: jgirl22
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 6:34am

The mom can't stop sending her child for court-ordered visitation for something that she considers inappropriate.

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Registered: 01-06-2007
In reply to: jgirl22
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 6:28pm

I only go into the bathroom when my daughter's in the shower if she calls me to come in, which is usually either because she wants to ask me something or because she wants me to check and make sure all the shampoo is out of her hair. If she closed the door (which she never does) or asked me not to come in, I wouldn't.

As far as safety, I don't think an 8-year-old is in any more danger in the shower than an adult -- as long as the door's not locked and she's not horsing around in there, I don't see any need for him to be in the room. Bottom line, even if his intentions are innocent, she doesn't want him in there and he needs to respect her privacy.

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Registered: 12-31-2007
In reply to: jgirl22
Mon, 09-29-2008 - 7:55pm

Whaaaat? This is so weird...safety?! What the hell?! What could happen to her while undressing?

This is so weird and SO unappropriate.

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Registered: 01-07-2004
In reply to: jgirl22
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 2:37pm

yep-big red flags. my 8 year old has not started puberty yet, but i dont let her run around naked here at home. her father is a male-she cant and shouldnt be naked around males. i dont care if he is her dad. it isnt right. why is he so insistent that he be in there?? especially if she has asked him to leave? im not usually in the room with either of my kids while they shower-and my youngest is 4. jmo, but i think he needs to stop. NOW.
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Registered: 07-29-2005
In reply to: jgirl22
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 3:50pm
I totally agree with some of the other posters. This is very inappropriate and all of the red flags should be going up!! My daughter stopped being naked around her dad around 4yo.

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Registered: 12-16-2006
In reply to: jgirl22
Mon, 10-06-2008 - 11:42pm

This is the