Accidentally catching son masturbating
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Accidentally catching son masturbating
| Wed, 03-21-2007 - 1:17pm |
Well what I kind if knew was inevitable happened last week. I went into my DS's room to get his laundry and when I opened the door, there he was, on his bed in all his glory, masturbating. I usually knock first but I was busy thinking about what I was going to make for dinner and didn't realize that I didn't knock. Anyway, there was not much he could do but turn beet red. I just said, sorry, and quickly left. I knew that he masturbated and truthfully I wasn't even embarrassed. I guess that I was more amused (I have always been amused that boys could never control that part of their bodies), than anything else, though I never let him know that.
Anyway, later when he came down for dinner, he couldn't look me in the eye. After about 5 minutes of silence, he apoligized and asked me if I was angry. My short answer was, no, but that we would talk about it after dinner. I also apologized to him for not knocking. To make a long story short, I told him that I wasn't angry, that it was normal, natural, all boys and most girls do it. I also told him that I knew he had been doing it for a while. When I told my best friend, with whom I have no secrets, about this, she told me that she has almost caught her son on several ocassions. He would quickly cover up and be sweating and red.
Have any of you ever caught or almost caught your son masturbating? My impression is that it's NOT that uncommon.
Anyway, later when he came down for dinner, he couldn't look me in the eye. After about 5 minutes of silence, he apoligized and asked me if I was angry. My short answer was, no, but that we would talk about it after dinner. I also apologized to him for not knocking. To make a long story short, I told him that I wasn't angry, that it was normal, natural, all boys and most girls do it. I also told him that I knew he had been doing it for a while. When I told my best friend, with whom I have no secrets, about this, she told me that she has almost caught her son on several ocassions. He would quickly cover up and be sweating and red.
Have any of you ever caught or almost caught your son masturbating? My impression is that it's NOT that uncommon.

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Sure is Rose!
Can't wait to see what's next.
Well Deb, I'm not sure how to answer your question. Would you like us to provide the details? LOL
There are so many skeptics because of past history on the board. We've had lots of teens playing games during Christmas break, etc.
But having caught my son by accident, I took your post at face value. My friend also caught her son.
My son never found out, so I didn't have to deal with the embarassment. (just mine, lol)
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What about your friend and her son? Did he know that he was caught? Bet he was as red as a beet as was my son. As I said in my first post, I wasn't really embarrassed as I was amused.
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