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|Wed, 11-12-2003 - 1:10pm|
I have a 16 yr old dd who is seeing a 18 yr old boy. They have been together (broken up a couple of times) since May of this year. DD's boyfriend is a nice boy and treats her well. He'll be going off to college in June. The physical part of their relationship has been the normal stuff (holding hands, hugging, kissing) from what she tells me. DD and I have a very open relationship. Lately she's been asking me questions, like, "After you're with a boy for so long, do they expect more than the holding hands, hugging, kissing?" and "Does the first time hurt?" Or telling me things like "Danny tried french kissing me today but it really grosses me out and I pulled away from him." or "Danny was really affectionate today, he hugged me alot." I asked dd if Danny was pressuring her for sex and she said no. She said that he respects her feelings and would never pressure her into anything that she didn't want to do. I'm getting the feeling that they are considering taking the next step in this relationship. Am I right in feeling this way or do you think I'm overreacting?