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|Fri, 08-27-2010 - 12:37pm|
I never thought I'd get to the point I would recommend "Be a selfish, stingy ass" to anyone- but I'm definately there now. You may remember the Coroner came to my house to tell me my youngest daughter's dad is dead. Why? I'm NOW ASSuming it's because I have his only child. He wanted her to have his belongings. She's 15 and they needed an adult to claim him and I had never been married to him so I gave them his mom& dads info.
Turns out THEY- without a word to US, got his house key and spent 2 days clearing out anything they could find worth MONEY and when they got there yesterday to find a note on the door that the landlord left saying the place was going to be locked up since she hadn't heard from him and the rent isn't payed- ONLY THEN did they decide to call here and say we better get over there and see if there's anything "we" want before its locked up.
We found all kinds of instructions, but no items, such as laptop computer, big screen plasma tv, a several disc stereo thing is gone but some of the surround sound speakers are still on the table, he has been a serious archer for as long as I've known him and there was ZERO archery equipment, no guitars (should be at least 2) and I could go on...
Last night when I questioned who might have been in there, Gpa did admit to taking the Plasma, ...
I am absolutely astounded. I am heartbroken for my daughter, and so disgusted I can't stand it. They are spreading around his "stuff" to themselves and bro and sis I believe, because when I mentioned the ONLY TWO items my DD WANTS, the ONLY TWO items she asked for, Gma started hemming and hawwing about it. My DD wants a gold necklace he always wore- mind you I bought him that necklace off the "home shopping network" before she was even born and he never took it off, and a class ring (that isn't even his class) with a red stone, probably glass, but she remembers him always wearing that ring. So Gma says- well sis says she gave him a necklace... and I had to get off the phone before I say something I regret.
OH! And "the family gathering" they want- is HIS ONLY CHILDS FIRST DAY AT SCHOOL. Her choice- she chooses SCHOOL.