Ex-gf from H***
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| Mon, 07-23-2007 - 10:02am |
DS18 met a girl, A, last fall while on a college visit. They hit it off, kept in touch via Facebook, and started a relationship. He went to visit over Thanksgiving, Christmas and spring break, and she came here for his prom. Things were moving right along and they were looking forward to starting at the same college this fall. We went to his college orientation last month and he stayed on at her parents for a visit (we left Wed, he flew home the following Mon). Apparently things did not go well and they ended up fighting much of the visit. DS had met a lot of kids at his orientation session, male and female, and got together with them once while she was at her orientation session later that week. For whatever reason, A was very angry about it (jealous since there were girls there?), and she was very distant and kind of mean after that. They decided to "take a break" for the remainder of the summer and talk things out when school starts in August.
SInce returning home, DS has been working 40+ hours a week putting money back for college, and spending what leisure time he has with his HS and work friends. He has been doing lots of very casual dating, mostly with girls he has been friends with a long time. Since he is going to a college 500 miles away this is the last chance to hang out with many of his friends until Christmas break or next summer. When he first came home from the bad visit with A, he tried calling her a few times just to say hello, and said she was rude and didn't want to talk. He quit calling, figured it was really over, and moved on. A week or so later, she began calling him incessantly. One night he had 27 calls from her on his cell phone. By this time, he decided that she wasn't really the girl for him and wanted out of the relationship permanently. Every time he tried explaining this to her she refused to talk about it and ended the phone call. He finally got her to stay on the line one night and told her he didn't want to see her anymore and to please leave him alone. He wasn't nasty and put it as nicely as possible (I was across the room and heard everything he said to her), wished her well and told her maybe they would eventually be good friends at college.
A is now telling everyone she can that DS was abusive to her, hit her and is "psycho". She is stalking his HS friends on Facebook and making up stories left and right. DS has posted a public message on his page urging his friends to ignore her but if they have questions to just ask him, he has nothing to hide. DS is irritated with her but isn't really concerned that anyone will believe her, he thinks everyone will see it as what it is- the jealous, crazy rant of a mad ex-girlfriend. I am furious at this little twit- the mama bear in me is coming out and I'd like to give her a piece of my mind. I will stay out of it though, unless it really escalates. GGGRRRRRRRRRR!!!
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