I had a lengthy and frank talk with my college sophomore recently where he said he still smokes pot but he has it under control. He admits that wasnt the case in high school. He said he has to get all his work done and then smoke because, when he smokes, he cant focus on one thing
He has all As and one high B at this point. Better than last year but,dont misunderstand, he has never failed-this was more Cs and Bs territory. His roommate is pursuing a double major in engineering and consistently has straight As
So don't assume he is clean because he is doing okay; he may just be keeping his habits in check, which is a good thing!
I have detected it in DS by heavy lids and this absurd willingness to talk-go figure. You dont see THAT one on the lists but here, its a reality! It's like he is sooo relaxed he doesnt have to keep up a front of some sort?? He is like my DH in that appearances and what people think of him matters a lot.
OK, Im rambling. I dont want to make it seem like this is okay-it is illegal! I was never able to find a way to stop it however.
I guess I am just glad mine has learned the concept of moderation
We found pipes and lighters. Seeds rolling around the seat of the car. Cutting school to smoke at homes where parents are at work is big-dont count on the school letting you know-we were told they dont have the resources to police seniors!!!
Also likely that if you start a general discussion about legalizing pot, he will hop on board with a loud thump
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Sorry seven, I'm really short on time now, so I can't get too indepth, but I could usually tell if they were on something at that moment
thanks for the responses.
Have you tried looking for and taking his stash?
I know it's illegal but there are 'degrees of'.
I had a lengthy and frank talk with my college sophomore recently where he said he still smokes pot but he has it under control. He admits that wasnt the case in high school. He said he has to get all his work done and then smoke because, when he smokes, he cant focus on one thing
He has all As and one high B at this point. Better than last year but,dont misunderstand, he has never failed-this was more Cs and Bs territory. His roommate is pursuing a double major in engineering and consistently has straight As
So don't assume he is clean because he is doing okay; he may just be keeping his habits in check, which is a good thing!
I have detected it in DS by heavy lids and this absurd willingness to talk-go figure. You dont see THAT one on the lists but here, its a reality! It's like he is sooo relaxed he doesnt have to keep up a front of some sort?? He is like my DH in that appearances and what people think of him matters a lot.
OK, Im rambling. I dont want to make it seem like this is okay-it is illegal! I was never able to find a way to stop it however.
I guess I am just glad mine has learned the concept of moderation
We found pipes and lighters. Seeds rolling around the seat of the car. Cutting school to smoke at homes where parents are at work is big-dont count on the school letting you know-we were told they dont have the resources to police seniors!!!
Also likely that if you start a general discussion about legalizing pot, he will hop on board with a loud thump