"Fast" 16 year old girl attempting to have sex with my son

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Registered: 09-13-2006
"Fast" 16 year old girl attempting to have sex with my son
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Thu, 04-21-2011 - 2:23am

My Sophomore DS is a great kid.

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Registered: 03-26-2003

When my now 26 year old was in high school, a doctor warned me not to be overly confident about him being immune from sex by being a shy nerd. He told me there was a trend for girls to complete a list of different types of boys to sleep with and I could be sure nerd was on the list.

It's possible this is what is up here as 'virgin' is surely on that list.

Have you spoken with him about THIS girl? I couldn't tell from your post if you had talked in general terms or specific terms.

I certainly think what he says is relevant. If it doesn't interest him and he is annoyed, by all means block the number! If he continues to be interested? Hard call.

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Registered: 07-30-1997
As much as I know I wouldn't have liked this advice, make sure he has protection and is aware of how to use it properly, even though you're being diligent about talking about disease and pregnancy. And yes, I'd block the number. Good luck.

Sue
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Registered: 11-28-1999

I don't know what good blocking the number will do if she can still talk to him in person at school.

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Registered: 12-03-1999

Well, the problem with blocking her #, is then Mom would have to ADMIT to <<w/o their knowledge>>>.

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Registered: 02-14-2000

I know it's probably not what you want to hear but if it bothered your ds that much he'd block her (or ask you to do it) or ignore her. Does he know you read his texts? Does he respond to them? Good kid or not - he's a 16 year old boy full of hormones and it's likely quite a turn on for him. By all means keep talking to him about your values and morals but also by all means make sure that talk includes the safe sex talk.

Pam
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Registered: 04-14-2011

Hello There,

I have two sons and one daugter.

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Registered: 10-16-1999

You really need to be able to trust your child and give him the chance to prove himself.

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Registered: 11-28-1999

I totally agree w/ your point on that, Rose.

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Registered: 12-03-1999

I still think the best insurance against sex, is for the kids not to have a steady bf/gf, & not hang out with just that kid and other steady couples most of the time.

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Registered: 11-01-2001

"I still think the best insurance against sex, is for the kids not to have a steady bf/gf, & not hang out with just that kid and other steady couples most of the time."

I'm sorry but I disagree.

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