Found Alcohol in DD Room

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Registered: 04-09-2006
Found Alcohol in DD Room
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Sun, 11-05-2006 - 10:41pm

I would have never expected this from my daughter. She is an excellent student, exceptional dancer, and has everything going for her. I found alcohol in her closet this afternoon while she was out with her friends. Her excuse was that it is her friends and I asked who, but she would not tell me. I asked her if she had ever been drunk and she responded no, but I don't know what to believe anymore. We talked about the consequences that come with drinking and she just repeated that she knows. Right now she is grounded until further notice, but I don't fully know for how long. I just need some advice.

Adelaide

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Registered: 10-16-1999
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 10:33am

You make a good point, if you eliminate one source, she's going to find another one if she wants to badly enough.

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Registered: 04-09-2006
Tue, 11-07-2006 - 7:13pm

Thanks for offering the option of her brother giving it to her. I talked to him and he tells me that he didn't give it to her. He was shocked to hear that she even had it, but then again he could be lying. Plus if she did get it from her brother or even boyfriend, it would have had to of been in late September because they are both at college. My son is 2 hours away and her boyfriend is roughly 10 hours away so they would have to be sending it in the mail and she hasn't recieved a big package. I feel like a detective.

Adelaide

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