HELP! Sons were threaten by parent
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HELP! Sons were threaten by parent
| Fri, 07-13-2007 - 2:29pm |
Okay, I have 2 sons and we live in a small town. My sons and there friend met some girls. They are all around 13 and 14. They mentioned it here and there but were embarrassed to admit they were starting to be interested in girls. The girls were texting the boys. One girls texts their friend and was telling him I love you. He didn't know how to react. Well, yesterday my son calls me from the convenience store and in the background I hear a man yelling, "I'm gonna kick ya'lls little asses and you can call your mommy's and daddy's and tell them to come on over and I'll kick their asses too. Stay away from my daughter and if I you ever talk to her again I'm gonna come kick your ass." I immediately heard him and asked my son who that man was talking to. He said oh, someone at beside us. I told him he better tell me the truth, because no adult has the right to talk like that to a minor. He would never say, so I called the store and asked one of the workers. She said the man was talking to they boys and a vendor and customers got scared. I called back the boys, and then called the cops. So did the friends mother. The girl then continues texting and calling their friend 15 times. Then has a friend call him. We checked his texts and some texts she wrote are explicit! My boys did tell me her texts were making them uncomfortable. Now, of course the boy wants nothing to do with her. Also, even if he did, he is so afraid to talk to her. The friends mom is going to press charges and going to the D.A. because the cop just said well he is just overprotective and wants his daughter checked out by a doctor. IF the girl is not a virgin than he is going to press charges. I hate to say it but these boys are slow starters and are just getting interested in girls. I'm not just saying that because I am the mother either. They're never left alone long enough to have done anything serious with a girl. Is this just the start of the teenage years? Is this just an example of what will come in the future? I am mad at this parent, but am a christian so I'm just praying about the situation. I feel soooo stressed and it really bothers me that this man did this to these boys.

It sounds like typical teen stuff and parents of all parties should be dealing with it in terms of dealing with their OWN children
It was silly for the man to yell at the boys but I think it was silly to involve the police as well-JMHO
I doubt a dr will tell dad the state of the girls virginity so hopefully, he will calm down and mind his own family business
This all sounds like pretty normal teen stuff... though the girl's dad needs to start looking more at what SHE is doing than what the boys might be doing.
Ramona Mom to 2 great kids and wife to one wonderful hubby since 1990!