I am SOO in over my head here.

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I am SOO in over my head here.
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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 4:19pm

Ok--I need some serious advice here.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 7:54pm

You shouldn't be slammed....I've thought the exact same thoughts myself.......he's a BOY...he did a 'jerky boyfriend' thing and danced and flirted with another girl..............BUT things escalate, emotions take over, but to do it TWICE in 2 days is not right.......no matter HOW you look at it.


She kneed him in the groin, put him in a headlock and hit him in the face, neck, chest and back.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:04pm

LOL

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:18pm

Take a deep breathe and get a grip.

First of all, your son is a kid. She does not own him. So, he is interested in another girl! So, he is texting another girl! So he danced with another girl! BIG DEAL! Does this mean he can not even TALK to another girl... Have a friend who is a girl... Change his mind and decide that his current girlfriend is not for him.. Or is he this girl's property...

Given what you posted about Miss Princess, do you blame him?

Yes, I would inform on Miss Perfect. She has NO RIGHT to take anything of your son. SHE HAS NO RIGHT TO INVADE HIS PRIVACY. She has NO RIGHT TO HIT YOUR SON!!!

Stand up for your son and tell Miss Princess that she is not welcomed in your home ever again. By all means, call her parents but take the high road. Call the police.

You would not be responsible if Miss Princess does not get to go to the Private School. She will be and her parents.

Be thankful that your son is free of Miss Princess? Would you want THAT as a DIL..

Sorry but I am angry for your son. I hate to hear of young woman acting with no class.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:18pm

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:29pm

If it makes you feel any better, I think your son not hitting back was a HUGE show of character.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:34pm

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:45pm


Been out of town so when I read the first post, I saw red. I hate bullies.
Dear Shelly, please don`t feel sorry for this girl. No woman, except in self defence, should groin a young man. And of course the mom reacted like she did. Where did you think the girl learned her 'unlady like behaviour' from.

Give your son a hug for me

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:45pm

Really, I think it went better than you are giving yourself credit for!


It looks like mom sat her down and had a little chat. The phone was returned and the girl apologized. I think that is great. She would truly be a fool to slash his tires after all this


Surely might be some nasty texting and MySpace postings but I think mom being tuned in will eliminate the big stuff

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:54pm
Six months is a long time for a 'romance' to last at this age - it's perfectly normal for your ds to be moving on.
Pam
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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 10:28pm

No, the college thing is done.