it is geting too overwhelming .

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
it is geting too overwhelming .
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Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:08pm
Hi ,well just venting again . I woke up this morning thinking to myself I am not going to lose my temper with my teenage boy , even if he is being aggravating. but he wasnt out of his room for 10 seconds before i was furious at him already . then of course he was furious at me and now i feel sick . we live upstairs of a 2 story townhouse and i have told him a million times already not to stomp. he has admitted not liking our downstairs neighbors and so i know when he stomps it is intentional. my neighbors are nice by the way so i dont understand it. anyway he stomps really hard running toward my toddler growling like a bear and scaring my toddler and then when i tell my teenager to stop he slaps the door of the laundry room ( just for a loud noise maker) and makes my toddler scream again , he says he is just playing and my toddler is laughing afterward but it is making me crazy . i was making breakfast and made for my teen . he grabbed his plate and went to his room , i told him no eating in the room but he didnt care. the other day he decided he didnt want to finish off his last few days of summer school so he skipped class telling me later i gave him no choice but to do so because he failed the second half of it and there was no point to continue the last three days. I was upset because i dropped him off and he mae like he went to school when he had probobly planned to cut before i dropped him off. everytime my teenager comes out of his room it makes my skin crawl . I know that is not a good thing to say or feel but my anxiety level is so high . i just think everyday , will this pass? ever? my teen will be a senior next year. anyway just wanted to vent . thanks for reading. it is probobly not the last you will hear about my teen on here. :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2006
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 5:30pm
Sorry you're having a tough day. I hope your evening goes better! :)
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Registered: 10-16-1999
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 1:45pm

I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed.