It's not better, it's worse!

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It's not better, it's worse!
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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 8:46am

There isn't an emoticon for crying so I had to go with angry, which also applies. As the title says, things aren't better they are worse.


Yesterday didn't start out as the best day and it just got worse and worse. Dave called me from his show in Syracuse and told me that he had gotten 3 text messages all the same from Austins brother Dallas (Yes those are really their names) I can't tell you exactly what he said or I may get kicked right off this site. It was really filled with profanity and was totally disgusting. So I ended up going to the police to ask what to do about it as we are not going to take it. I was told to keep the text messages and if it went on for a few days that Dave could come back and file a report.


Okay that's done and I go on with the things I had to do. I was on my way to work to pick up my pay check and Dave calls again with a text message that Austin sent him, I got one right at that moment and they said: I don't know if Kels told u... but we are in love and she is having my kid "Baby Why Don't You Stay?"

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 8:51am

OMG, (((HUGS))), Kristie! What day you had! I can just imagine the conversation you had with Kelsie because my DD pulls that "you treat me like a 3-year-old" stuff with me too. It is like these girls are possessed or something when they think they're "in love", and they just can't see what is right in front of their face.


Hang in there, Kristie and don't give up on her!! She still needs you and I'm sure that somehow, she is hearing what you're saying and it is making a difference to her. Stay strong!


EJ


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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 9:11am

I'm so sorry you are dealing with this.

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 9:24am

I don't even know what to say!

 

 

 

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:30am

The fact that Austin's brother sent Dave those text messages would make me really upset. And maybe Kelsie doesn't realize it right now, but she soon will see that anyone whose brother would do that is not worth her time.

Our kids do blow up at us now and then, just like we sometimes do with them. Take one day at a time, and know that you have lots of support here.

Hugs to you.

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:39am
It's so tough being a parent.
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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:46am

Oh my gosh, what a " " situation you're in. I can't really offer words of wisdom other than keep your stand, no matter what, and eventually she will turn back into the daughter you know and love. But it might take a while, so be patient. Hopefully it will click sooner than later and she'll realize what's happening. Until then, many hugs and thoughts your way - it WILL be okay and she WILL see the light.

Lisa

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:56am

Is Kelsie still seeing her counselor?




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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 11:00am

((((((((((((((((Kristie))))))))))))))))))


I don't know what to say except that you WILL get your daughter back.

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 11:51am

No adivce...

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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 11:53am

Hang in there, Kristy.

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