Jealous of the GF!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Jealous of the GF!
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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 9:07am

This is embarrassing but it has been two weeks since the upsetting event and I am not getting over it!

DS2's GF is drop dead gorgeous, hot, beautiful-take your pick. She also works at a bar restaurant that encourages tip seeking attire so she tends to dress that way

The first time DH met her, I joked I had to wipe the drool off his chin. I mean the whole pupil showing attraction thing? His eyes could have been in the encyclopedia explaining the concept!

ON DS2's birthday we went to a cook your own steak place. DH hovered over this girl, cooking her steak, helping her with her coat and chair, etc, etc

I,meanwhile, was ignored. I think if I fell in the parking lot, Id still be there!

DS doesnt seem bothered but I know he has noticed. The girl told him she didnt think I liked her. DH asked "she doesnt feel that way about me?". DS laughed and said "you're a guy, dad-she knows how you feel about her" DH got very angry-a textbook example of protesting too much

I hate to confront DH over this. I know he will insist he is just being polite and we will get nowhere. And I feel somewhat silly

But it REALLY bothered me.......

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Avatar for heartsandroses2002
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 4:50pm

Sending hugs - I wouldn't like that at all. Now, I'm even more grateful for having daughters only.


I really have to agree with daddio's approach. My H has a real problem with aging, even though he shouldn't - he looks great at 46 and most people tell us we look about 10 years younger than we are. Well, H loves to tell me how most people think he is in his 20's...uh, no, ain't buying that. He looks good, but he doesn't look 20 years younger!! He also loves to tell me that the check out girl or the bank teller was eyeing him. I also noticed one time that when we were walking through the mall and a 20-something was passing by; he seemed to

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Registered: 11-13-2004
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 5:38pm

I tell my daughter this all the time....thanks for having a male actually confirm it! LOL


Actually....my DD tells me this all the time. (in a joking manner... whew) She just recently learned "guys don't take hints."

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Registered: 12-16-2001
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 4:01pm

Yep, I agree with the others - address it, w/ a bit of humor thrown in.

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Registered: 04-30-2000
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 6:15pm

I think your dh's behavior is inappropriate.

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