Moms of girls-get involved in catfights?
Hi ladies, I'm fairly new here. I have 2 dd's; ages 16 & 14. I've found staying out of my 16 yo's cat fights with her g/f's very difficult, but it has worked for us. Girls are so mean and can be so cruel, but then they forgive each other and life goes on. I'm there to pick up the pieces, sympathize, and suggest that maybe that particular friend isn't such a good friend afterall; dispense words of advice and experience.
Unfortunately, things are not going so well with my 14 yo. Mothers ARE getting involved, and bad things are being said, and it really is difficult for us adults to forgive & forget.
Does anyone have any comments about this?
dd 16 yo
dd 14 yo
ds 13 months old