I have to agree with your wife and the others.
You act like it would be a choice for her to be a lesbian or not.
I've read some of the postings and if your dd is indeed a lesbian, this is who she is..period. So what if she wants to wear clothes that are not something you would choose? I'm sorry, but I have such a problem with this..You really need to respect your dd's choice, and allow her to dress how she feels most comfortable. You cannot make her into someone she is not, or comform to dressing how you see fit, especially at this age. It is absurd to me that you would strip your dd of her image because you don't *like* it. She will never be this age again, let her blossom into the person she is going to become, in the grand scheme of things, style of dress is miniscule.
I don't think the issue is whether she is a lesbian or what her clothes look like. Omega got angry with her because she is a criminal who has stolen things. He may or may