my DS seems to be doing worse
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|Mon, 06-09-2003 - 12:52pm|
I don't know anymore what to do, what to think. everyone who knows him tells me to have PATIENCE and he will be ok - he is still going to therapy, and will start seeing a psychiatrist as soon as we get the appointment. we are trying to arrange a municipality-run special care school for next year. apparently- mostly kids like him, basically good kids who for whatever reasons do not fit into the regular schools. they start out on a one-on-one basis, and then *graduate* to small classes (5-6 kids). oy... its so hard, I wish I could just wave a magic wand and all will be well... I know he is suffering too, and I can't seem to help. he assures me that just by listening to him, and encouraging him, it helps him, even if he is angry and crying and yelling...
I don't even know if I would get divorced if it would help. I just don't know. at first the therapist said that divorce right now would be bad for him. but now that my husband and I have been going to therapy and she is aware of ALL our problems, maybe she has a different opinion. whatever. I can't afford to get divorced right now anyway.
sorry for rambling on and on here.... i just needed some hugs...thanks for listening