Need support! The "S" hit the fan!!!!

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Need support! The "S" hit the fan!!!!
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Sun, 01-27-2008 - 10:47pm

I haven't been posting much the last few weeks, things have been hectic in general around here. So y'all aren't really up to date on Kelsie and the b/f that we don't like. I can't get into all of it, but let's just say that things have just gotten worse and worse.


Dave is out of town and on his way back from the DC area, but won't be home until tomorrow. We had a long talk and have decided that we will not support her realtionship with Austin in any way shape or form. I told her just a little while ago and she of course is furious. Of course.


I told her he is not allowed in our house, I will not take her anywhere to meet him, I will not pick him up and take him anywhere, I don't want to have anything to do with him. We feel that he is endangering her and our family. Jaryd doesn't feel comfortable in his own home anymore, he has ended up being "pushed" out of the livingroom and away from the things he wants to do and the places he wants to be. Because I have been working extra this weekend due to my boss being out of town, Jaryd has ended up being babysitter for his older sister, if Jaryd is home they won't be "doing"anything.

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Sun, 01-27-2008 - 11:00pm

Hi Kristie, I'm Ginny (new here but not to Ivillage).

"Ginny"

Loving wife

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Sun, 01-27-2008 - 11:54pm

Well, Idk if I am any consolation, but it does get better :D




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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 5:59am
Sending you lots of strength to see this through to the end with the best

 

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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 6:55am

((HUGS)), Kristie. Sorry to hear all of this is going on! Yes, it is so hard to see our DD's lose their heads this way, but it does happen. FWIW, I think you're doing the right thing. She will eventually come to her senses. I'll bet that the fact that Austin is staying with this girl might be the thing that finally snaps Kelsie out of it. Keep us posted & stay strong!!


EJ


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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 7:35am

Sorry to hear you're going through such a rough patch wtih Kelsie. Hope it works out soon, and she's able to put it all in perspective.

Hang in there, and don't forget to bring your tired/bleary-eyed/stressed vents here for us to listen to and help!

Sue, mom to Leah and Seth


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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 8:51am

Aww Kristie - I 'm sorry it's come to this.

Pam
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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 8:52am
Hi Ginny and welcome to the board.
Pam
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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 9:02am
Parenting is so hard!!
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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 9:09am

So sorry you are going through this stressful situation.

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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 9:52am

((((Hugs)))) Kristie! I know it is hard to watch our children make

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