No common sense at all - why?
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No common sense at all - why?
| Mon, 01-21-2008 - 12:53pm |
My wife, has 3 daughters and a son from a prev. marriage.
Her 10 and 12 y.o. daughters have very good common sense.
However, her 15 year old daughter

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LOL. I am glad I am not the only one with a teen without common sense! (I was beginning to think it was just me!!)
My SS(15) also has NO, and I mean NO common sense! (and I am totally not buying that "oh, he's a typical teenager" crap. He has NEVER had common sense. I recently spoke to my mother about this and she believes that either you have it or you don't. It is not something that is learned or that you "grow into". I agree with her. My SS has lived with us for 6 years now and for the past 5 years he has had to clean the kitchen a few times a week after dinner. Wash the dishes (or put them in the dishwasher if empty), wash any pots and pans, wipe all the counters down. Wipe the table, throw away the napkins, put leftovers away etc... you know CLEAN IT UP. and STILL to this day he can't seem to CLEAN the kitchen in it's entirety. There is ALWAYS something that he "forgot". Drives me NUTS!!! Call it laziness call it whatever, I chalk it up to lack of common sense. He will go outside in the heat of the summer (we live in FL) and leave the door open. HELLO its 95 outside. I have to tell him to close the door. The list goes on and on.
I think my DD is dating your DS
Sorry I couldn't help but make the joke. I just wish her parents seem to be as concerned as you are. My sons gf seems to have no brains, morals, or parents who are the least bit concerned about her activities. I will tell you I have a niece who acted very similar at that age but now at 20 is a lovely young lady and I know my sister thought there was no hope but she just plugged away and kept singing her tune and the girl turned out ok-actually better than ok. So hang in there.
So many of the things posted here, I have tried.
I've got to say, Luigi, maybe you need to lighten up a bit.
Also, on a prickly note...maybe you shouldn't refer to your DSD as the typical 'dumb blonde'.
Luigi, I think you need to see a therapist, on your own, without dsd or dw. You need to get a reality check on what is expected behavior in teens and what is not. You also need to recognize the fact that some of your references are out of line, such as
Sometimes kids have to suffer the consequences of their actions to "get it."
It sounds like she is a typical 15-year-old teenage girl.
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