Everything you say makes perfect sense about happiness.
Those who posted here are not trying to be judgmental, but rather trying to provide a few thoughts on what they think they would do.
I like the way you handled college costs which is the way I'd rather handle it.
mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16
The difference between you and me is that you ARE stil married to the father of your children as is Bunnie.
Where IS that board?