Now I know...now what? keylogging ques
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Now I know...now what? keylogging ques
| Sun, 10-07-2007 - 11:27pm |
17 yr old daughter went to homecoming and the software I purchased captured her IM saying "I'm going to get so drunk tonight"
and then an IM today saying "I got so drunk last night"
But honestly, she didn't seem that way to me at all when I picked her up at midnight - In fact, she was very tame and

I don't see that there is anything you can do with that info.
Okay, as for the drinking and getting drunk thing, well you saw her and if you didn't see or smell anything chances are she was just talking.
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Now if this means what I think it means, I just can't imagine how that would happen. Not if they were dancing with all these other kids. I mean really I just don't get the logistics of it. Maybe it's just me, but that whole idea is pretty strange. Maybe you should clarify what "fingering" is with your dd. Some how it just doesn't work for me, KWIM?
As for what you can do with the info. Well, you have a few choices, you can tell her that you have been reading her IM's etc. she will probably freak and you will get no where.
or you can just say to her in a really innocent way, so I hear your date got a little fresh with you during the dance or something like that and when she wants to know where you got the info, just say
My guess on the fingering would be copping a crotch feel from the rear-challenging to reach, long arms would help but I can see that happening at a dance through ones clothing
The drinking? I 'knew' one time when my DS came home stoned and DH laughed at me when I suggested it. I did my "you were stoned last night and we need to talk' approach the next morning and, to DHs surprise, he admitted it! DS has friends who drink and smoke with him-one I have personally caught-and their parents dont see it or smell it(hes 19 now but this began in HS)
I don't put a lot of stock in parents noticing. And I dont claim to be 'special'. I may have picked up on it THAT night but it was clearly far from the first time so how many times had I missed??????
We have a wealth of odor dispersers these days-many a smoker in my time could have gone unnoticed with Febreze, KWIM? And I dont know that these kids drink beer-there are so many beverages out there anymore that are like soda pop.
I bought the alcoholic iced tea and found DH drinking one at 10AM-when I gave him a hard time, he was shocked they were alcoholic. I certainly wouldnt have noticed what he drank if I hadnt seen the bottle-there is no beer or alcohol smell
When I found alcohol in DS's room, it was flavored vodka and the Baileys minis, not beer
Advice for the OP? Next time just blurt it out-in the AM say "you were drinking last night-how much?" You dont need to explain why you are making that statement. She is obviously at events where alcohol is available, in her heart she knows she has made these statements to people....it's not like she can be shocked at your question!