Pizza Hut

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Registered: 03-02-2006
Pizza Hut
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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 12:48am

Tonight me and DH took the kids out to Pizza Hut, much to say it was a disatster. The waiter must have known dd, called her a Sl*t. DD is going throught some odd phase of calling my dh a fag and claiming he is gay. Is this normal?

Oh well....back to life.

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Registered: 09-07-2005
In reply to: julesnapine
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 1:49am

Was the waiter joking or what? And did he say that in front of you? It's sure strange.

And as far as DD calling your DH fag and gay? I've never heard of that. My DS-16 will often say "that's gay" when talking about an object or event, but he's never shown any type of resentment towards gays... so to me, that's odd in itself.

From here, I'd say that your DD's words aren't normal.... but maybe it's a regional thing? What does your DH think about this?

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Registered: 04-02-2003
In reply to: julesnapine
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 2:56am

are you serious?

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Registered: 05-12-2003
In reply to: julesnapine
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 9:36am
I have heard many kids toss around those terms. They act like it is no big deal, but I don't really like it and have told my kids that. With kids around here, everything is "gay" which doesn't bother me too much...it's just slang and they aren't targeting homosexuals. As for calling DH a "fag" or "gay", whether she was kidding or not, I'd say for her to stop with the name calling when it comes to family members. We should all support our family and have respect.
Debbie
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Registered: 11-29-2005
In reply to: julesnapine
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 2:50pm

Hi,


1) you are a customer and you should have asked to speak with the manager imediately. This is totally unacceptable irrespective of the waiter's relationship with your daughter.


2) I assume you are not pleased that your child is calling your DH a fag/gay etc. If this is the case, correct the child. Tell

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In reply to: julesnapine
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 4:39pm




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