Setting boundaries for 14yo dd w 15yo bf
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Setting boundaries for 14yo dd w 15yo bf
| Sat, 01-12-2008 - 11:18am |
I'm hoping that some of you can give me your thoughts on this subject.
| Sat, 01-12-2008 - 11:18am |
I'm hoping that some of you can give me your thoughts on this subject.
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Holy moly, you have bigger problems than a 14 y.o. DD with a new boyfriend. I have no BTDT advice for you, but my first instinct would be that you have to keep this man away from your children until he gets help for himself. This sounds like a very bad environment for your kids & I'd be afraid that he'd lose control and physically assault one of them, given what you described. And the fact that he called your DD while he was drinking is very disturbing to me. I know it's all easier said than done. Sending you ((HUGS)) and hoping you find the help you all need.
Thanks, and holy moly is about how I feel.
I'm not making light, or making excuses, but he would not physically harm any of the children.
Hello
I read your message and I have done the same with my Daughter because I have seen on the bill that they call her or she is sending text messages and doesn't go to sleep till midnight. When I told her I would take the cell phone at night (10:30 pm) she was pretty upset.
So taking the cell
Just for a point of interest here, how old do you think kids have to be to date?
I might suggest that you go to the Making a Second Marriage work board for some advice about dealing w/ your DH.
I really don't see anything wrong with "allowing" them to have crushes in middle school - it's preparation for hs dating, if that's what they want to do, and adult dating later down the road.
Dear jensinsmon
Please, please get some help ASAP. Your home situation does not sound healthy for either you and your children. Your kids are too precious to be exposed to that man.
I wouldn't see any problems with this.
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