Shocked and in tears
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|Sat, 05-31-2003 - 8:31am|
I am in total shock. I noticed she and boyfriend always seem to try to get alone during their twice a week visits here at our home. She finally told me, they did have oral sex at his house. I allowed her to be there for 1 1/2 hours to work on homework and study for test because her boyfriend had an epileptic seizure at school and didn't have his book. His parents were home .... but it still happened.(in his bedroom)
Of course, I screamed at her and said that she would never be alone with the boy again and if she planned on having intercourse (which I don't approve of or give my permission) she better tell me in advance and go to GYN to be placed on birth-control pills and he better use a condom. Much to my surprise .. she say "fine, I want to get on the pill." I almost had a heartattack.
I know this is the start of a bad thing .... I must now make the choice to allow her to continue this relationship or make her end this relationship. Either way ... she is the one I worry about becoming sexual active.
Has anyone been through this?