Things moving a little fast - dd and bf
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| Mon, 09-18-2006 - 8:06am |
How can they say all the right things to your face, yet do all the wrong things that you JUST talked about?
I posted a few weeks ago about dd14 and her now bf and I was worried about his intentions. Well, I know for a fact things are moving at teenage speed. She tells me the things he says and does and boy is he smooth. He "appears" to really care for her. I have spyware on dd's computer and wow I would fall for him too - especially at 14!
Well, thanks to the spyware, I found out some stuff and I don't know what to do with this info. She KNOWS the program is on her computer - so maybe she wants me know?? She was talking to one of her best guy friends about her and J's relationship and she said things are moving way too fast and told him what happened. She's already on birth control (to regulate her periods). The guy friend told her to tell him things were going to fast and she said she would today at school. I can only hope she does.
We had just talked about all the stuff moms and daughters need to talk about - reputation, self-respect, self-esteem, etc and she says all the right things. She saw what happened reputation wise to her ex-bf that did more than she should have with a guy and the guy ran his mouth. We had just talked about that!!
Do I go to her with this knowledge and straight up tell her what I know? (she tends to "forget" I have the spyware) or keep talking to apparently a brick wall and listen to the bs she spews back at me?
WWYD?
Kim


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