I think being sung to at a dance might have been embarrassing to the boy(I can almost see other couples chuckling) and he tried to get out of the position. Even jerking away could have hurt her sore wrist but, to be abusive, he would have had to have thought this through and done it with intention. I just dont see him processing that quickly-"ok, she hurt her left hand and she is in back of me so thats her left hand on my chest and ....."
That would be pretty malicious.
I am surprised she would tell you this story though. Did it come up because her wrist was bothering her or is there a history here?
Thanks again, They normally are very happy and he genuinely is very nice to her for the most part (they spoil each other), but when they fight, they fight - mostly it's over quickly and over something dumb like one of them trying to prove the other wrong.
Ok, here are my thoughts...
Well, it would concern me.
I think being sung to at a dance might have been embarrassing to the boy(I can almost see other couples chuckling) and he tried to get out of the position. Even jerking away could have hurt her sore wrist but, to be abusive, he would have had to have thought this through and done it with intention. I just dont see him processing that quickly-"ok, she hurt her left hand and she is in back of me so thats her left hand on my chest and ....."
That would be pretty malicious.
I am surprised she would tell you this story though. Did it come up because her wrist was bothering her or is there a history here?
If there has been nothing up to this point that has concerned you, I wouldn't get too worried now - though
Thanks to you all, I guess I am think too "adult".
Thanks again, They normally are very happy and he genuinely is very nice to her for the most part (they spoil each other), but when they fight, they fight - mostly it's over quickly and over something dumb like one of them trying to prove the other wrong.