Thoughts?

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Registered: 06-12-2007
Thoughts?
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Sun, 09-30-2007 - 12:23pm

Ella had her homecoming last night, she had a blast.

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In reply to: helladrama
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 1:00pm

Ok, here are my thoughts...

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In reply to: helladrama
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 1:45pm

Well, it would concern me.

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In reply to: helladrama
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 2:53pm

I think being sung to at a dance might have been embarrassing to the boy(I can almost see other couples chuckling) and he tried to get out of the position. Even jerking away could have hurt her sore wrist but, to be abusive, he would have had to have thought this through and done it with intention. I just dont see him processing that quickly-"ok, she hurt her left hand and she is in back of me so thats her left hand on my chest and ....."

That would be pretty malicious.

I am surprised she would tell you this story though. Did it come up because her wrist was bothering her or is there a history here?

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In reply to: helladrama
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 3:43pm




If there has been nothing up to this point that has concerned you, I wouldn't get too worried now - though

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In reply to: helladrama
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 10:03pm

Thanks to you all, I guess I am think too "adult".

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Mon, 10-01-2007 - 12:06am

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In reply to: helladrama
Mon, 10-01-2007 - 7:53am
Were you there when she sprained her wrist.....any bruising noticed.
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In reply to: helladrama
Mon, 10-01-2007 - 9:09am

Thanks again, They normally are very happy and he genuinely is very nice to her for the most part (they spoil each other), but when they fight, they fight - mostly it's over quickly and over something dumb like one of them trying to prove the other wrong.