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| Thu, 07-05-2007 - 6:18pm |
This is an update to my other post, i talked with the princial and laid things out like this.....
when she was still in school he always seemed to be wherever she was in the hall and it started making her uncomfortable b/c he was always behind her ot nearby in the halls, we think this is how he got her phone number b/c she gave it to a friend in the hall and he was behind them...so she started not being friendly to him when he kept trying to talk to her or be near her all the time....
after she graduated he started calling and text mesaging her and she ignored him, then he called her friend and asked the friend why she did not answer him and finally she answered his calls and told him to please leave her alone b/c she did know why he was calling....most of his messages we general hello how are u what are u doing kind of stuff, he did tell her that her picture on her my space was hot but after she asked him not to call he did not.....in the mean time i had called the principle and sent him the cell phone records and then a few days back he texed her again and she was out with a guy she has been seeing so he got up set and tried to find his number and the message but she had deleted it and then he called everyone they knew to find the number and i asked her to tell him that while i appreciate his concern for my child, i am in the middle trying to handle situation but a few days later he text messaged her again and the guy got the phone from her and said a few choice things about him leaving her alone and not calling her ever again, so he did not listen....i talked to the principle again today and told him all of this and so he said he was working on it and i told him i was very concerned about his obvious fixation trying to "befriend" me child and that i wanted him and the school board to work on getting something done about it, and i would prefer he not have his contract renewed but i wanted them to be careful how we all handle situation so that we do not put her in any danger....i am very scared, he obviously fixated on her and who knows if hes watching her or anything like that and who knows what he is thinking, i am just so nervous about how to keep her safe without putting her in more danger.....prayers are needed and welcomed...thanks all....i also made sure to mention to the principl that i read in the paper where they took a teacher, principle, and school board to court over a 55 yr old teacher sleeping with a student and told him we need to handle the situation carefully so the that that does not repeat its self with the next girl her fixates himself on...also alot of the children including my younger cousin who goes to that school said that this teacher is "overly friendly" with all the girls in his classes....im so nervous about how to protect my baby from this person...just praying my heart out over it right now.....everyone please be aware of a teacher that u have a feeling about and who u feel is too friendly with the female students and watch your children closely....i dont want anyone to have to feel the nervous fear i am feeling right now...God Bless You All
when she was still in school he always seemed to be wherever she was in the hall and it started making her uncomfortable b/c he was always behind her ot nearby in the halls, we think this is how he got her phone number b/c she gave it to a friend in the hall and he was behind them...so she started not being friendly to him when he kept trying to talk to her or be near her all the time....
after she graduated he started calling and text mesaging her and she ignored him, then he called her friend and asked the friend why she did not answer him and finally she answered his calls and told him to please leave her alone b/c she did know why he was calling....most of his messages we general hello how are u what are u doing kind of stuff, he did tell her that her picture on her my space was hot but after she asked him not to call he did not.....in the mean time i had called the principle and sent him the cell phone records and then a few days back he texed her again and she was out with a guy she has been seeing so he got up set and tried to find his number and the message but she had deleted it and then he called everyone they knew to find the number and i asked her to tell him that while i appreciate his concern for my child, i am in the middle trying to handle situation but a few days later he text messaged her again and the guy got the phone from her and said a few choice things about him leaving her alone and not calling her ever again, so he did not listen....i talked to the principle again today and told him all of this and so he said he was working on it and i told him i was very concerned about his obvious fixation trying to "befriend" me child and that i wanted him and the school board to work on getting something done about it, and i would prefer he not have his contract renewed but i wanted them to be careful how we all handle situation so that we do not put her in any danger....i am very scared, he obviously fixated on her and who knows if hes watching her or anything like that and who knows what he is thinking, i am just so nervous about how to keep her safe without putting her in more danger.....prayers are needed and welcomed...thanks all....i also made sure to mention to the principl that i read in the paper where they took a teacher, principle, and school board to court over a 55 yr old teacher sleeping with a student and told him we need to handle the situation carefully so the that that does not repeat its self with the next girl her fixates himself on...also alot of the children including my younger cousin who goes to that school said that this teacher is "overly friendly" with all the girls in his classes....im so nervous about how to protect my baby from this person...just praying my heart out over it right now.....everyone please be aware of a teacher that u have a feeling about and who u feel is too friendly with the female students and watch your children closely....i dont want anyone to have to feel the nervous fear i am feeling right now...God Bless You All
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| Thu, 07-05-2007 - 10:30pm |
someone probably already said this but I would call the police and have them pay him a friendly visit. It sounds like he is stalking her. At the very least reporting it to the police will help establish the pattern. Is your daughter's father in the picture? He should be brought in to the loop. Her safety is threatened and if he is available and willing this seems like something he may be able to stop before it goes any further. Good Luck.
| Fri, 07-06-2007 - 12:09am |
Please contact the police about this guy. Don't count on the school and the district to handle this appropriately. This is a criminal matter, not a school-related matter. He is stalking your daughter and the police need to handle this. I would also get a restraining order against him.
| Fri, 07-06-2007 - 7:31pm |
yes i have been thinking the same thing, like getting an RO on him and i talked with the princial again and let him know that he needs to handle situation delecately b/c kjust like i need to handle it delcately b/c i do not want to put her in more danger....i am glad to hear that u think he may be stalking her as well...i was unsure if i was just being an over reactive parent or what....i am trying to handle this delcately so i do not indanger her more but i am working at it from all the angles i.e. school board, and princiapl and also trying to see what to do with the RO idea and like i said trying not be put her in more danger.......for the poster that asked about her father, her father and our mother are both deceased and i have been raising her alone since she was 11 years old...please pray for our safety as we try to handle this situation carefully....i would not be able to live without my baby so it is very complicated trying to keep her safe...i would like to beat this man with in an inch of his life but i am not a violent person and that would be a terribly inappriate way to handle it but as parents i am sure u all can agree when it comes to ur childs safety the day dream that u could do that to the person that u feel is a danger to them is pretty normal...i cant say that if the police would leaveme alone with him for a few minutes and let me beat the crap out of him that i would really have to restrain myself from the temptation....lol.....prayers please and be aware of those teachers that seem to friendly..thats how he started getting fixated on her...God Bless you all...let u know whats going on soon and thanks for the suggestions and any others will or course be welcomed and helpful
