Update on long distance visit with ds..

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Update on long distance visit with ds..
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Mon, 12-20-2010 - 11:14am

Thank you to all who replied regarding my visit with my ds...when my oldest ds and I arrived with dd13, my middle ds and my ex husband were already seated at the Subway with ds eating lunch, so any hopes of having lunch with him went out the window.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 8:14pm

Wow! At first I thought the ex was trying to hit you up for money but then I read the 100 dollar gift part.

Is it at all possible that the ex plays broke to make it easier to say no to ds for money that could be used for drugs? It sounds like he wants to help but is clueless-perhaps thought he had some inside knowledge and now realizes he is in over his head?

I am glad you are able to speak with dd daily.

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 4:48pm

Thank you Pam! I hope the very same thing.. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas holiday.

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Registered: 02-14-2000
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 12:21pm
Sorry I'm late chiming in - hope these 2 weeks pass quickly and uneventfully for you and your dd. Hugs and Christmas wishes coming your way!
Pam
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Registered: 04-13-2010
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 12:18pm

Thank you,

Sue, Cat and Mom-Uk.. I know it sounds insane, the entire situation and it is, it really is...I appreciate the thoughts and hugs.

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 12:15pm

Rose..it is an incredibly huge, mind boggling *wow*. I have been in phone contact with dd each morning since she left.

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Registered: 10-16-1999
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 7:46am

Wow.

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Registered: 07-30-1997
Wed, 12-22-2010 - 7:24am
I'm in this line too - hugs to you....

Sue
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Registered: 11-25-2007
Tue, 12-21-2010 - 11:19pm

gosh jakesmom, i feel for ya, the ex is certainly not helping the situation at all and I can relate

((hugs))

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 11-13-2009
Tue, 12-21-2010 - 2:52pm
Hang in there. I'll be thinking of you.

 

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Registered: 04-13-2010
Mon, 12-20-2010 - 3:37pm

I don't know if you are missing something, maybe you are if you are not divorced and having to do the

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