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| Sat, 09-29-2007 - 10:07pm |
Hi ladies!
I have a major problem on my hands, and I really need some advice.
| Sat, 09-29-2007 - 10:07pm |
Hi ladies!
I have a major problem on my hands, and I really need some advice.
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I agree that you should tell the other mom and if you can have th phone with you in case she needs to have something to see. I would hate to see something like that of my dd, but I think I would want to see what was going around and be able to say to dd that I saw the pic.
I definitely would want to know too... and would quickly have a talk with DD about how once you send the pic on to ONE person, it's now probably going to end up being viewed by a whole bunch of people.
I think I'd take the phone along with me, and try to get the mom to a really private area, and say "I need to show you something that I think you'd want to know about."
Did the picture come directly from the girl?
I so agree with everyone here, let us know how it goes.
I suggest you scroll down to the next section of the board and read the thread
'kid exposed himself on Myspace'
This was a 15 yr old boy who did not even send the pics to anyone but simply posted them on his Myspace page and invited a GF/ exGF to come look. HE was reported to the police who appear to have taken it seriously and there were suggestions to report him to the FBI, border patrol, District Attorney, and a cyber hotline for sexual predators
Your son did the right thing coming to you. I would not do anything that would discourage him from coming to you in the future nor anything that would put HIM at risk.
Frankly, showing that picture to the mother of the girl means you risk your son being reported and possibly arrested for having child porn on his telephone. Get it off of there and use that thread as a learning experience for him
You're in a very tough position, and I do not envy you.
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