What to do with info

Avatar for kel7col4
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
What to do with info
14
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 8:50am

dfghjk




Edited 2/19/2008 5:55 pm ET by kel7col4



Pages

Avatar for bookwormmom
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2003
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:28pm

Okay there are a few things here.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket
Avatar for kel7col4
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 2:07pm

dfghj




Edited 2/19/2008 5:55 pm ET by kel7col4



iVillage Member
Registered: 02-11-2008
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 4:03pm

Wow, that's a tough place you're in.

Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2002
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 4:06pm

Deleted my post after realizing your DD decided not to go...there's never a hard fast rule, each time is different. I find sometimes when the kids confide in us like this, they're actually begging us to keep them home, kwim?



 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2005
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 8:41pm


I don't get how the cops show up at their house and they never find out?

Avatar for bookwormmom
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2003
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 8:46pm

I agree that sometimes they are kind of hoping that we will do something about the situation. I know there have been times that Kelsie tells me things and when i ask her what she thinks I should do, she tells me to do what I need to do.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2007
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 9:10pm

Quote: "I definitely feel like I should "tell" but damn it why can't the rest of these kids' parents have a clue? Why do I have to take the risk of losing my dd's "trust" and guiding her straight because the rest of the parents have their heads in the sand?"

My advice is to keep your mouth shut unless you want to become clueless like the other parents. Don't break your daughter's trust. If she can't trust you then she won't open up. If she doesn't open up then you won't know what is going on in her life. Telling someone would sacrifice a tremendous amount of trust which you have obviously managed to build up until now.

The bottom line is if you break her confidence now, don't expect her to come to you in the future.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-17-2006
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 8:52am
Just lurking here, I have 2 boys 12 and 17.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-13-2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 11:11am
what about sending an anonymous note to the parents?
Avatar for kel7col4
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 8:27am

fghjk




Edited 2/19/2008 5:56 pm ET by kel7col4



Pages