Yucky graphic phone sex?
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Yucky graphic phone sex?
| Tue, 01-29-2008 - 8:16pm |
Where's the "Ew, gross!" icon?? OMG -I've seen similar issues addressed, but did think I'd be the one writing about it. My 16 year old DS recently started dating a 14 year old girl. They talk and text a LOT - and I started monitoring his text messages. By the way, he knows in theory that I "might" be doing this, but I don't think that he knows I really DO. Anyway - these two have been texting some pretty graphic stuff! Like wow - burn-my-eyeballs-out type of stuff that has made me wish I never even saw it! But see it I did, so I'm trying to figure out what to DO with it. I haven't told him what I know, but I *HAVE* been initiating discussions on sexuality and boundaries and what is or isn't appropriate. The question is - do I have some sort of moral imperative to let the girl's mother know about this?

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*sigh*
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http://www.pnhp.org/news/2009/october/meet_the_new_health_.php
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQTBYQlQ7yM
Unfortunately, not all parents *want* to know such things.
Don't be shy about talking about this with your DS...it gets easier...as for monitoring his text msgs, well, that's a personal choice...as long as I'm paying the bills I maintain the right to investigate, but I do it rarely. I trust them and want to respect their privacy but they have to know that I can and will check things out
I have this feeling that if you tell the girl's mom (assuming she's not someone you already know), she will just blame the older boy and have this "not my innocent DD" kind of reaction.
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