14 yr old daughter had sex in her room in my house!!! ** pls respond I need advice asap **

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14 yr old daughter had sex in her room in my house!!! ** pls respond I need advice asap **
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Wed, 11-30-2011 - 2:25am

I was so shocked that she had her boyfriend sneak in her room for the past week and my husband and I didn't even know.

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Registered: 12-16-2011
I am going by what I have seen happen before hand. Other than first part of you being cruel, sarcastic to be honest I didn't read the rest of what you typed. Have a great night
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Registered: 02-14-2000
ROFL Rose - I'm ashamed to say I got sucked into this one...
Pam
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Registered: 10-16-1999

Seriously???

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Registered: 12-16-2011
I think getting to strict on her would just cause her to have more sex now
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Registered: 12-16-2011
Yes I agree if they want to have sex they will find away. I usually go to the store when I pick my dds up from school. My boyfriend don't come home from work till late
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Registered: 02-14-2000

Hopefully as well as being on the shot she's on a much shorter leash. If she can't be trusted to wait in the car while you shop you should take her in with you or leave her home with her dad or another responsible adult. I agree that 'where there's a will there's a way' but you don't need to make it easy for her. Not to mention it was in very poor taste to have sex in public - they could have gotten picked up for indecent exposure.

Pam
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Registered: 12-16-2011
Yes I walked out to my car, saw them having sex as well as could anybody else did that walked by. My 14 dd is on the bc shot now
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Registered: 08-08-2009
Ouch! Another OMG event for sure! Sounds a little old fashioned to me, like back in the day of my parents or my generation. As I always say, "If they are bent on having sex, teens will find a place and time to do it."
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Registered: 12-16-2011
I came out of grocery store, caught my 14 year dd, her bf in back seat of my car having sex

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