Freaking out here.......

As much as we want to, freaking out does not help the situation. All I can say is to keep the lines of communication open. In a world where everybody is having sex, it doesn't mean that everyone is actually doing it. THere is so much peer pressure out there to follow the norm. You raised her and you know her, you are her best example. As parents we have to give them the tools to be safe, but we can't do that if they aren't on speaking terms with our kids. Keep your relationship open and honest ... that's really all you can do.