Need Sexting Advice...ASAP!

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Registered: 02-12-2007
Need Sexting Advice...ASAP!
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Tue, 11-08-2011 - 9:31am

I have a 15 year old daughter who just had her first "boyfriend", much to my dismay.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 11-08-2011 - 11:54am

I wouldn't be 100% sure she hasn't had sex (or done some of the stuff she is talking about).

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Registered: 05-27-1998
Tue, 11-08-2011 - 12:41pm

I agree with Musiclover. Even if you're sure she has not had sex, your DD is certainly thinking about it and needs to see a GYN. And definitely take the texting off her phone.

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Registered: 01-21-2008
Wed, 11-09-2011 - 9:34am

I am pretty certain that my daughter has never had sex, but the fact that she's communicating like she might is more than I can take!

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Registered: 05-13-1998
Wed, 11-09-2011 - 2:45pm

Just agreeing with the others... GYN appointment, remove texting plan and/or taking phone away completely, keep computer in family room, ect.

I wouldn't assume things are "fine now" that boy is out of the picture. These sorts of relationships are two way. People get addicted to the drama and

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Registered: 07-24-1997
Wed, 11-09-2011 - 3:46pm

You can do all kinds of disciplinary things, and you should, but my main concern would be to address why she has so low an opinion of her self-worth that she would do these things.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Fri, 11-11-2011 - 9:09pm

Above all else I may say, make sure your DD knows she will always have your unquestionable LOVE.

I’m missing the age of this boy and his SA (sexual activity) status. Is he another inexperienced idiot the same age as her, maybe even a few weeks younger, or just an old horny bed hopping jerk out for a any piece he can land (I could be more graphic here, but this is a family site).

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Registered: 10-16-1999
Sat, 11-12-2011 - 6:01pm

Hey Kimmy!

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Registered: 01-21-2008
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 12:00pm

Hey doxie! Are you still with us? I'd love un update on how things are going:smileyhappy:

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Sun, 11-13-2011 - 9:21pm

Dear Doxie64,

Keep in mind that teens are under lots of stress and pressure, with hormonal issues at play also.

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Registered: 10-16-1999
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 6:36am

At the rate that those "hidden extras" keep popping up, this wedding is going to end up costing us about 25-35% more than we expected! :(

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