Talking to Your Teen About Sex

We kept our boys busy, they were allowed to date after 15 but neither found a girl they liked enough to date, volleyball was much more important, which wasnt a bad thing. In hindsight, the lack of dating maybe set up my youngest to fall really hard for the girl he is dating. To throw away his morals and to be ruled by his hormones. I am hoping he comes around soon and that he doesnt put his future in jeopardy. We have talked to them about the importance of finishing their degrees in order to have a good life with enough money to support a family. Im not sure they heard what we were saying. I dunno, maybe the fact that they had no sisters set them up for not seeing the truth. We worked really hard at talking and teaching and we did start super early so that they would be comfortable talking to us if they needed help. We taught them about STDs as did the school as does the University they are at. We talked about pregnancy that is unplanned. Both are young adults, they are coming to a decision about sex and all it entails....if they havent already done it. As a parent, Ive done my best, we've talked about birth control, they have access to condoms.