court, moving, crazy mother

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Registered: 03-18-2004
court, moving, crazy mother
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Tue, 02-08-2011 - 3:51pm

Things have been hectic here Lately. We had a flood just before christmas and half our house was a swimming pool. Just as I was getting her room refinished and getting ready to move all teh stuff I bought into it she informed me that she was moving in with her 19 year old BF.

Apperently my mother signed teh papers releasing her from social services to make this possible. Had she not done that N woudl opnly have been able to live in SS approved locations.

We have court coming up on Friday for charges from last year (assult) and one from the first of this year (another assult) . If she is found guilty of teh second charge for any reason she faces jail time for breaching a court order. *it was her friend that beat up girl number 2 and they both told teh police so*

N and BF are moving to

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Registered: 03-18-2004
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 9:09pm

my mother has been behaving this was since 21. Possibly before but I wasn't around to know. She goes throiugh phases where she does well and then she falls apart again. She is bi polar and ....

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Registered: 01-21-2008
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 12:06am

I'm sorry. You're talking about the sis that was living with you, right? I don't know what to say except you've been doing a great job being a "parent" figure. Hopefully some of the real life family sis has experienced while with you will stay in her mind to help her along. Please take care of YOU!

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Registered: 02-14-2000
Wed, 02-09-2011 - 1:32pm

Sounds like things have been stressful for you! Keep us posted on the court date. Has your mom seen a doctor? Does she suffer from dementia? You mentioned that she disappears for periods of time. DH's mom died at age 62 in the final stages of early-onset Alzheimers. She started showing signs of it in her late 40's.

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