my husband yelling problem

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Registered: 01-10-2004
my husband yelling problem
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Tue, 10-18-2005 - 12:42pm

I have a husband that is hot tempered and yells when he is mad.
I tried to tell him that yelling is abuse! He will not go to counceling.
I admit I yell sometimes but not to the tone my husband uses.

our daughter is seven years old almost eight in a few weeks.She gets very moody and if she does not get her way she becomes a animal.Last week she saw the pumpkin patch and wanted to go but I said we will see because it is so hot outside- the entire time at the mall she drove me crazy and then I said no now we are not going. She made such a scene at the mall screamimg and calling me a evil witch, everyone was wacthing us. I did not yell at her and tried to calm her down but she was so mad. My husband would of yelled at her and put her in the car( I am glad he was not there). Most of our fights are about our daughter and how to discipline her. It makes me very nervous when he yells. our daughter does not listen to a nice tone she will keep it up, She will throw things, slam doors, yell. She also argues about where we eat all the time- if we go somewhere that she is not to fond of you will not enjoy your dinner and will get into a fight over this.I am at the end of my rope! I am a nervous person and get panic attacks

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-21-2005 - 1:35pm

Delurking with my 2 cents.

Rebecca

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sat, 12-03-2005 - 11:23pm

I'm brand new here but just wanted to say that our elementary school (grades K-4) uses Love and Logic. The teachers & staff are trained to use it with their students, and the school counselor offers classes on it for parents (which I am currently attending). If you go to their website (not sure of the name, but if you do a search on "love and logic" you'll find it), you'll see they have several titles of books, audiotapes, etc. available.

Good luck,
Fran

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 12-08-2005 - 9:31pm

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