12 yr Old Boy
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| Thu, 04-17-2008 - 10:58am |
I am not sure what to do with this situation.. is it normal? what should I do?
My son has been hanging out with his friends, skating, just having fun on the weekends and such for this year. He has changed, has grown moody, yells a lot, I can tell his hormones are changing, he will go from crying to yelling and happy all within a period of time. School is the last thing on his mind, which is sad, he has been grounded for months now. I keep telling him that he is going to fail 6th grade and he will have to repeat it. We shall see, I can see his grades are going up.. Anyway, thats not why I am writing.
My daughter (14) told me the other day that she wanted to come home because she was 'mad bored'. When I asked why, she said Kyle (my son) and Destiny (her friend) were constantly 'making out'. To say I was shocked was an understatement. My husband and I sat down and talked to him telling him that at 12 its inappropriate behavior... hes to young.. yadda yadda.. but it is still going on. We don't know what to do, I mean he is to young, and one thing can to lead to another.. he is still a child.
What do I do? Is this normal? I remember the grade, I had no interest in boys, let alone what 'making out' was... All I wanted to do was play out side, be with my friends...
Help!
"The past is history, the future is a mystery, and this moment is a gift. That's why we call it the present."

Absolutely he is too young.
Ramona Mom to 2 great kids and wife to one wonderful hubby since 1990!
Are they at the same school? Can you give the teachers a heads up to what's going on if they are? If not then your ds can't be allowed to hang out with friends for a while so you can make sure he isn't meeting this girl on the sly. I hope he can see why you're so upset about it but he's hitting hormone alley so he probably won't be very receptive to parental input/wing clipping. Good luck