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| Sat, 08-01-2009 - 8:42am |
DYK Thread for August
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Just because I'm too busy and fulfilled to join the mommy clique 24-7 does not make me a "stalker: -- I've introduced myself several times.
Aly woke up chipper! She was not the same child from the night before!! She was bobbing her head to music, and laughing at the jokes on the radio, and when we got to school, she had the look of awe on her face, saying, "I wish I had my camera, because the moon is so pretty right above the trees!"
She liked seeing her friends, and finished reading a book...lol.
She was okay in my class, but it was difficult for me because I didn't want to look at her.
In every class, I give my spiel about who I am....including, I am married and we have one daughter, and she is at this school. Didn't say she was in 7th grade, didn't say her name. Only one student the entire day asked who she was and it HAD to be in the class she was in. LOL...half the class BLURTED out "Aly" and pointed to her...she even pointed to herself and laughed.
Thanks Laura. I think when you all of a sudden go from having an independant, self-sufficient 12 year old to having an infant, and then fast forward 2 years to a toddler and an infant, you forget just how much they really need all the time.
I finally figured out how to explain it to DH last night while I was staring at the ceiling after getting madison down finally, its like you said, its not like DH has a ton of freedom, its more like a perceived freedom, he gets to go to work every day, which means he gets a screaming free ride to work, he can blare the radio as loud as he wants to, he doesn't even have to come home right when he is done working because he doesn't have a set schedule, heck, he could be done at 3 every day and I would have no clue unless he told me so. And he gets to be the fun dad. He does do a lot with Emma, and he tries with Jordyn, at least sometimes. But after being home with Madison all day long every day, nursing, struggling with her, just once in a while I'd like to have him come home and leave Madison with him and let me take Emma and jordyn out and be the fun mom for a bit. Instead, he comes home, sees that I need a break and wisks away the older ones, but i am still stuck with the infant. I know it will be a bit better once I go back to work and once I can get Madison to take a bottle regularly, that way at least I can leave her with him for a bit and do stuff with the kids or on my own once in a while.
I really wish we had enough teachers that I didn't have to teach her--it's going to be so awkward. (Especially if she gets her first middle school B in my class...my tests ARE hard!)
But, the smaller student body IS one of the main reasons I want her at this school....so I can't have my cake & eat it, too.
That's an interesting piece of information, but I think under the traditional notion of "debate," that would mean a reply post that disagrees with what OP says or makes a counter-point.
While Jordyn is 14 and still considered a child, there is a significant difference between her age and the other children's ages, as well as demeanor. Jordyn has always been very independant, very self-sufficient, and not what I would call at all a challenge to raise. And while I love Emma's spirit, she is definitely a much different child to raise comparatively speaking.
For me personally, the tone in your response came off as questioning me as a person and as a mother making a decision to have more children. One that i don't feel appropriate for anyone but my husband and I to make or to question. We all make choices in life, good or bad, and just because I am having a bad day, or two, I came to this group for the support of mutual friends, not a post questioning why I would choose to have more children.
I guess its kind of like asking a parent with an autistic or special needs child why they chose to have another child after the first, knowing what they know. Its not something you question, you just accept it as their decision and if they are looking for support, you can either give it to them, or refrain from discussions at all, not purposefully be negative towards them.
Aww Alysha. I wouldn't feel bad, but I suppose at that age, the kids take certain things certain ways.
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