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Facebook Tips?
| Mon, 10-06-2008 - 8:09am |
I have a Facebook -
I just began letting my daughter have one - it makes me nervous tho.
I said I had to be her "friend" on there --- I think I heard that as a TIP - to be able to watch what she's posting.
Are there other ways I can keep a watch on her? Other tips?

I also would just remind her that it is really likely that her Facebook will be seen by other people's parents at some time or another -- and that if one of her "Friends" gets mad at her, they can use what is on her page against her... So she should be mindful of what she chooses to post. I think that is sometimes difficult for teens/tweens to understand.
When you set up the account, remember to set it as private so only 'friends' can see her profile and pictures.
My Kids and Me in Northern Ireland 2008 - The Giants Causeway ** Sue
Kurt has a facebook. I am on his friends list -- although its sad since he has more friends than I do. He is only allowed to have friends that he knows i.e family and kids from his school.
I don't know his password, but it is saved to the computer so I can log onto it. I have checked it a few times. I would strongly suggest not forgetting about the inbox where people can send messages to each other without it being seen by everyone on the wall.
The other thing I would say is to not just set it to private but if they are uploading pictures, to set each album so that only friends can see them. The default is "everyone" meaning all of facebook. I hate that option and I also don't like the option where friends of friends can see your pictures.
Even I have to watch what I say on FB since my Mom, Kurt and some of his friends are on my friends list. LOL.
Greetings from a lurker. :)
Since my son got his facebook, I've realized that all kids need to be warned about paying attention to the photos other kids are taking of them in embarrassing or compromising positions. We can keep tight control of our own kids privacy controls but there's not much we can do about what photos their friends post.
THANKS to you all for all these tips!!!!
They are GOOD Reminders - and common sense -that we all might not necessarily think to discuss w/our kiddies.
Some of the girls in Kurt's class have posted some pictures that raised my eyebrows. Nothing really bad, but I've seen sleepover pix where the girls are all in their jammies and some in their bras. And tons of bikini pictures and those "I'm taking pouty pics of myself in the mirror in my room while trying to make my boobs look bigger" pictures.
I don't think they are bad enough to warrant talking to other parents - especially since in the 6 years we've been here, all of 2 parents have talked to me - but I don't think those girls remember that all the geeky hormone filled boys in their classes are looking at those pix too.