His broken heart...

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Registered: 07-13-2004
His broken heart...
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 9:35am
I had posted 10 going on 16..Help!

I wanted to let you guys know the recent development.

I picked my son up from daycare yesterday and he was very very upset. He started crying on the way home. I asked him what was wrong and he told me tearfully, mom she lied to me and doesnt really like me. (the little girl he had kissed in my orginal post) I pulled the car over and took both his hands in mine and had him tell me everything. Apparently the little girl had kissed another boy and told my son she never really liked him anyways. Ugh he was SO heart broken. He looked at me and said mom, I cant believe I kissed her. I thought she loved me. This was the best opening in the enitre world for talking to my son about why she should wait untill you really know someone before you kiss them. You might think they are someone they are not...waiting on stuff like that was important to make sure it is really love. He was still heart broken, and still firmly believes he wasted his 1st kiss on her. Even though this was a bad situation, it set the perfect opening for one of the most important conversations my son and I have ever had.
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Registered: 06-08-2004
Tue, 07-27-2004 - 5:44pm
((((Hugs)))) to you and your son.

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Registered: 07-27-2004
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 4:00am
You sound like an AMAZING WONDERFUL MOM!!!


Good thing your boy only believes in kissing for love!

That was sweet