I love the holidays but I get burned out.I am trying to tone it down this year and I need to learn to say no.I like helping out and tend to get taken advantage of by freinds and faimly and this tends to tick my husdan off and then hes mad so then I get mad and then everything just blows.Nov. and Dec are very busy her.Sams B-day,Thanksgiving,Dh B-day,Mom and Dad B-day and anniversary,MIL anniversary,then Christmas,then Nices B-day.So it is a ton packed into six weeks.Yikes.My mom often asks me to shop for her and says I will pay you back but it is hard for me to do that but I say yes then dh gets mad then it is hard for her to pay me back,ugh.Then it is school Hoiday partys for both kids and some how I end up doing a ton.I also hate the pushy croweds So this year I am not going to do it all.I will help with a few things but I am also going to enjoy my family here at home and put what I want first this year and then what everyone wants me to do for them next.If I have the time of want then I will if I dont then I wont. Tammy
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I do have a little bit of dread - I hate huge pushy crowds, and have been known to melt down a time or two while in the midst of them.
Tammy
We do the same thing Maryland crab!
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