~*~Jan Book Club Discussion Time~*~

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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:35am

For those of you who are participating in our January Book Club----we are discussing today, the first half of the book!


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:36am

Question #2


David describes feeling like "an aberration" within his own family (p. 7) and describes himself as feeling like "an imposter" in his professional life as a doctor (p. 8). Discuss David’s psyche, his history, and what led him to make that fateful decision on the night of his children’s birth.


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:38am

Question #3

When David instructs Caroline to take Phoebe to the institution, Caroline could have flatly refused or she could have gone to the authorities. Why doesn’t she? Was she right to do what she did and raise Phoebe as her own? Was Caroline morally obligated to tell Norah the truth right from the beginning? Or was her moral obligation simply to take care of Phoebe at whatever cost?


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:39am

Question #4


Though David wanted no part of her, Phoebe goes on to lead a full life, bringing much joy to Caroline and Al. Her story calls into question how we determine what kind of life is worth living. How would you define such a life? In contrast to Phoebe’s, how would you describe the quality of Paul’s life as he grew up?


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:40am

Question #5


Throughout the novel, the characters often describe themselves as feeling as if they are watching their own lives from the outside. For instance, David describes the moment when his wife is going into labor and says "he felt strangely as if he himself were suspended in the room . . . watching them both from above" (p. 10). What do you think Edwards is trying to convey here? Have you ever experienced similar feelings in your own life?


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:41am

Question #6


There is an obvious connection between David and Caroline, most aptly captured by a particular moment described through David’s point of view: "Their eyes met, and it seemed to the doctor that he knew her—that they knew each other—in some profound and certain way" (p. 12). What is the significance of this moment for each of them? How would you describe the connection between them? Why do you think David married Norah and not Caroline?


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:42am

Question #7


After Norah has successfully destroyed the wasps’ nest, Edwards writes that there was something happening in Norah’s life, "an explosion, some way in which life could never be the same" (p. 139). What does she mean, and what is the significance of Norah’s "fight" with these wasps?


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:43am

Question #8


The secret that David keeps is enormous and ultimately terribly destructive to himself and his family. Can you imagine a circumstance when it might be the right choice to shield those closest to you from the truth?




Edited 1/17/2007 8:44 am ET by cl-foxymomof3

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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 8:44am

Question #9


What do you think Norah’s reaction would have been if David had been honest with her from the beginning? How might Norah have responded to the news that she had a daughter with Down’s Syndrome? How might each of their lives have been different if David had not handed Phoebe to Caroline that fateful day?




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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 10:05am

Q1


My immediate emotional reaction was of sadness for the baby!


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Wed, 01-17-2007 - 10:07am

Q2


Once getting to know David, I can slightly understand his thinking the night he made the decision to give the baby up!


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