Need advice on DD friends/enemies?

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Registered: 10-09-2006
Need advice on DD friends/enemies?
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Tue, 11-06-2007 - 8:22pm

Hello, it's been awhile since I've been here but I really need some advice. My daughter has started to have issues with some of her friends. My dd has never had any issues like this before so this is all new to me.

Basically what's going on is my dd has been best friends with 2 girls down the street and one of them is like the ring leader. She's very bossy and if my daughter would hang around the other girl too much then she would get jealous. But, now my dd has become friends with another girl in her class and that one bossy friend is starting to tell lies to the other girls in their group so that they won't be friends with my daughter. They don't want my dd to be friends with this other girl but, then will also try and take the new friend away from my dd. I don't know why because that just doesn't make sense to me. At one time my dd was playing with her new friend "Aubrey" and the bossy friend "kaitlyn" came and said to Aubrey, "come and play with us" and Aubrey told her "NO" that she wasn't going to leave my dd. Now, that this is going on the bossy"Kaitlyn" has been telling everyone not to like my dd and her friend Aubrey. Kaitlyn "bossy" will tell one of my dd friends that she said something bad about that girl when my dd never said that.

Sorry, that I'm just rambling on but it's kind of hard to get the whole story told but I hope this all makes sense. I just want to know if I should speak with the mother of the bossy one but then I don't want to cause trouble with the mom or to have that girl go back to school and tease my dd that "her mommy had to tell on her"

I don't want to hurt my child but then I don't want this to continue, so please help!

Thanks,

Concerned mommy :( Suzie

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Registered: 01-26-2005
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 8:42pm

My 6th grader always comes home with dramatic stories from school.

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Registered: 09-26-2003
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 11:28pm

Hi Suzie,


Ugh---I hate this tween drama!!!!


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