Is this ok or even normal?

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Registered: 03-12-2008
Is this ok or even normal?
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 8:56pm

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Registered: 03-07-2008
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 7:42am
Poor you that sounds like a nightmare. Those children have learned that they can have everything they want and that there seem to be no boundaries and that is probably the most scary thing of all for them which is causing alot of the other behavior I'd suspect. MAybe 1 day he'll wake up n smell the coffee before it's too late.





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Registered: 06-15-2007
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 8:33am
Hoo boy, I'd say the sleeping issue is the least of that poor kid's problems!!! Wow. That is really sad. I can see why the guy is your "Ex!"
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 9:25am
im sorry to hear that. both those kids need some serious therapy. do they act the same way in school? maybe a school counselor can open some doors for them. Good luck.
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Thu, 03-20-2008 - 9:32am

OMG, I'm so scared for those kids!


As much as I've wanted to baby Sherina, I'm glad I didn't because a child who isn't allowed to grow simply won't; and when it's time to live on his own, he won't know how to!

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Registered: 05-22-2007
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 11:33pm
No, this is definitely NOT a good idea.
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Registered: 03-12-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 9:21am

His daughter does well in school. She is a little sweetheart, but she throw up a lot (no known cause).
His son is in high school and apparently, he does well in school. He did fail a few tests, but on Parent/Teacher night, they have no complaints

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Registered: 01-19-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 10:04am

Okay, here are my 2cents:


Sleeping in a bed with a parent of the same or opposite sex = not a big deal at all. I'm pretty open to where my kids sleep at night, they often sleep together in my DD's bed, sometimes they sleep in my bed, but I like my space so I usually

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Registered: 03-12-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 10:52am

Melanie, thanks for the reply


When he took his Daughter to the dr and they found nothing wrong, I told him it was prob food allergies.
I have Lupus and suffer food allergies as well and know the effects they can have.

He never made another appointment to take this girl to see any other dr. Him and his ex wife's famous line is "they will grow out of it"

He will NOT listen to me.

Like I said, if I went to therapy, he would come.


My ex thinks he's perfect and as well as his kids. It's impossible to make someone see who they really are unless they want to see it.

I left him a month ago and sit here in total anxiety about if I should just move on or try to help him.

It's not my job to fix him, but I struggle with the love I have for him and the love I need to have for me.

I'm almost tempted to print everyone's replied out to show him, but that will just make him go NUTS!


Maybe it's time I let go for good.

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Registered: 01-19-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 11:32am

I'm sorry that this situation has you so anxious.

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